The Art
of Losing
I’d
thought myself a winner, having worked well and hard.
With
Marnie raised our kids, took retirement, health unmarred.
And
then we’d experienced life in other places – had wandered,
studied, walked life’s paths together, oft
sat and pondered.
Luckily,
we’d been quite whole of body, mind, life-style,
And
our years flowed by creatively for quite a while.
Flowed
by as in a dream ... but now she’s dead, you see
and I’m here alone. Instead of two, there’s
just me.
I
still look at travel books, journals, maps, and more
And
with family and friends, conjure past years galore
But
those so-real times with her are in the dust
for now my Marnie’s at rest; I’m left alone
to rust.
And
now I’m rather long of tooth, and so very sad too,
Even
took courses to guide me, alone, to get through.
After
53 years together, the loss has been hard to smother
we’d both loved so, needing to be needed by
the other.
Many
good friends – to Death – have been my loss.
‘Tis
the Law here on Earth, to bear mortality’s cross.
All is flux, so all must go; yet the hardest I have found
is mastering life without my Mate, no longer
’round.
Oh
Death is real, so real, and – like birth – surely matters.
Such
hard consequences for the survivor, left in tatters.
She’d
been born, lived, loved, gave birth, now too soon I dread
ne’er more in this universe, our lips to
touch; my Marnie’s dead.
She’d
been my completion, heart’s home and Eden too.
Now,
with her return to the Eternal Fountain, I’m so blue.
For
me – the task of daily living’s now under a great pall
my good wife’s absence – like the sky –
spreads over all.
My
body – so like an empty house – still craves her near
For
without her presence, my temple’s lost its fire I fear.
As
her constant lover, my blood had coursed hot and full;
now, without her love, it’s not the same; Oh
God … ‘tis dull.
I’ve
found that the Art of Losing is not hard to master;
Eventually
we all lose love and life, that’s not my disaster.
For
the best laid schemes of all who live, oft have no advent
and thus we learn - Life’s Plans contain
their own intent.
Posted December 28th, 2013
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